We often hear the word “narcissist” used to describe people who are excessively selfish and have an inflated sense of self-importance. However, there is a specific type of narcissism that can be diagnosed – somatic narcissism. This article will explain who a somatic narcissist is, its symptoms, and how to deal with someone who suffers from this condition.
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What Is a Somatic Narcissist?
A somatic narcissist is a type of narcissist who is obsessed with their physical appearance. They are often very vain and spend a lot of time and money on their appearance. They may have plastic surgery, wear designer clothes, and drive expensive cars. Somatic narcissists are often very charming and seductive and use their good looks to get what they want. They can be very manipulative and often take advantage of people.
A somatic narcissist is someone who is excessively concerned with their physical appearance and often uses their looks to take advantage of others. Sometimes a somatic narcissist will have plastic surgery or spend a lot of money on their clothes and car to create an image of success. They may also be very charming and seductive, using their looks to get what they want from others. While somatic narcissists can be superficial and manipulative, not all narcissists are somatic. There are also other types of narcissists, such as cerebral narcissists, who are more focused on their intelligence and achievements, and vulnerable narcissists, who are more emotionally fragile.
Somatic Narcissists v/s Other Types of Narcissists
A somatic narcissist is someone obsessed with their physical appearance and their body. They are always looking for ways to improve their looks and they spend a lot of time and money on their appearance.
Other types of narcissists may be more focused on their achievements or their power. But a somatic narcissist is all about how they look at the outside world. The difference between these types of narcissists is that somatic narcissist needs constant attention and approval from others to feel good about themselves.
The main difference is also that a somatic narcissist is usually more outgoing and extroverted than other narcissists. They are often the life of the party and they love to be the center of attention. Other narcissists may be more introverted and they may not need as much attention from others.
There might be also other differences between these types of narcissists but these are the most common ones.
Symptoms of Somatic Narcissism
If you’re wondering whether you or someone you know may be a somatic narcissist, here are some symptoms to look out for:
An excessive need for attention and admiration, often seeking out activities that will draw attention to them
The attention we receive from others is never enough. There may be a constant need to seek out others to admire them, or a preoccupation with their physical appearance.
A sense of entitlement and expectation of special treatment
Somatic narcissists may feel that they are entitled to the best of everything and expect others to cater to their needs. They may also demand special treatment and become easily offended if they don’t get it.
A lack of empathy for others and a focus on their own needs and feelings
Somatic narcissists are often self-absorbed and insensitive to the needs of others. They may be unable to see things from another person’s perspective and be uninterested in the feelings or experiences of others.
A need to be sexually active and promiscuous, often engaging in risky sexual behavior
Sometimes, somatic narcissists will engage in risky or inappropriate sexual behavior to get attention or feel more powerful. This can be dangerous and lead to problems in their personal and professional lives.
A tendency to take advantage of others, either emotionally or financially
Somatic narcissists may try to take advantage of others, either by manipulating them emotionally or financially. They may also be prone to lying and cheating.
A history of financial problems, often due to overspending
Somatic narcissists may have a history of financial problems, due to their extravagant spending habits. They may also rack up large amounts of debt and struggle to pay it off.
A history of drug or alcohol abuse, often as a way to cope with their low self-esteem
Somatic narcissists may turn to drugs or alcohol as a way to cope with their low self-esteem. This can lead to addiction and further problems in their lives.
A sense of entitlement, expecting others to cater to our needs and desires
Sometimes, somatic narcissists may feel that they are entitled to the best of everything and expect others to cater to their every need.
A lack of empathy for others, feeling little or no remorse for our hurtful actions
Sometimes, somatic narcissists may be so self-absorbed that they are unable to see things from another person’s perspective. They may also lack empathy for others and feel little or no remorse for their hurtful actions.
A need to control others, often through manipulation and coercion
Somatic narcissists may try to control others through manipulation and coercion. They may also use their physical appearance to control or influence those around them.
Causes of Somatic Narcissism
There are many different causes of somatic narcissism. Some experts believe that it is caused by a need for attention and admiration. Others believe that it stems from deep-seated insecurity or low self-esteem. Some experts believe that somatic narcissism is caused by a combination of these factors.
Some of these causes are:
Genetics
One of the main causes of somatic narcissism is believed to be genetics. Studies have shown that narcissistic personality disorder tends to run in families. This suggests that there may be a genetic component to the disorder.
Environmental factors
Environmental factors are also thought to play a role in the development of somatic narcissism. For example, if someone grows up in a household where they are constantly praised for their looks, they may be more likely to develop narcissistic traits.
Trauma can also lead to the development of narcissistic personality disorder. For example, if someone experiences abuse or neglect during childhood, they may be more likely to develop the disorder.
Abuse
Also, if someone experiences abuse or neglect during childhood, they are more likely to develop a narcissistic personality disorder. These experiences can cause the individual to develop deep-seated insecurity or low self-esteem, which can lead to narcissistic traits.
Dealing With Somatic Narcissists
If you’re in a relationship with a somatic narcissist, you may be wondering what the best way to deal with this type of person is. Furthermore, Here are some tips:
1. Don’t try to change them.
Somatic narcissists are who they are and they’re not likely to change. Accepting them for who they are is the best way to deal with them.
2. Set boundaries.
Somatic narcissists can be very demanding and they may try to take advantage of you emotionally or financially. However, it’s important to set boundaries and stick to them.
3. Be assertive.
Somatic narcissists will often try to control the relationship by making all the decisions. Furthermore, It’s important to be assertive and let them know that you’re an equal partner in the relationship.
4. Keep your own life.
Somatic narcissists can be very jealous and possessive. It’s important to maintain your own life outside of the relationship so that you don’t become overly dependent on them.
5. Seek counseling if needed.
If you’re finding it difficult to deal with a somatic narcissist, you may want to seek counseling from a qualified mental health professional.
Prognosis For Somatic Narcissism
Somatic narcissism is a personality disorder that is characterized by an excessive need for attention and admiration, as well as a sense of entitlement. People with this disorder often display narcissistic behaviors, such as grandiose thinking, a preoccupation with power and success, and a lack of empathy.
Although there is no cure for somatic narcissism, treatment options are available that can help manage the symptoms. Therapy can be an effective tool in helping people with this disorder learn how to control their need for attention and admiration, as well as how to develop healthier relationships. Medication may also be prescribed in some cases to help with associated symptoms, such as anxiety or depression.
If left untreated, somatic narcissism can lead to serious problems in all areas of life, including work, school, and personal relationships. It is important to seek professional help if you think you or someone you know may be suffering from this disorder.
Conclusion
If you think you might be dealing with a somatic narcissist, it’s important to be as aware of their behavior as possible. By understanding what this type of narcissist is all about, you can better protect yourself from their manipulation and control. Keep in mind that somatic narcissists are often very charming and charismatic, so it’s important not to get caught up in their web of lies. If you suspect that someone you know is a somatic narcissist, the best thing to do is to distance yourself and seek help from a professional if necessary.
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